Hey, my beautiful readers out there welcome back to my blog raks – let’s make life simple. Hope you all are having a great week and waiting for a yet amazing weekend.
So basically this time I will be sharing with you all something vital for being satisfied in life. Does it sound heavy, worry not, as it’s clear from my title, I am going to keep it lite and happy.
Before we start, do tell me this, ( by leaving a comment below) how many of you out there see certain quotes that you like but do not share or post it on your wall just because you don’t want to be judged. I definitely do that but these days I am trying to break the cycle.
The title of today’s blog is related to this very issue. I once read a quote it said ” what you think of yourself is much more important than what people think of you”
What a beautiful and simple way of putting how important is being self-worth or self valued. The quote is basically saying if you value yourself and accept who you are without an ounce of doubt in your mind then no person can put you down.
Always remember no matter what you do in your life be satisfied for doing it. And purpose you are unhappy just move on, always find a way that makes you smile, that motivates you to take steps to achieve your goal.
Being a homemaker should not put you down, do not let anyone tell you otherwise not even your husband or children, respect yourself and then demand respect from others for the work you do at home. Taking care of a family is no joke, and as a homemaker you deserve all the respect and appreciation you get.
I am a freelancer earning very less amount or none at all some months yet I am happy in life. Yes, I, have PG in law and yes I can work anywhere if I want to yet I made a decision of staying at home and doing things I love. The reason for this is simple I am not living my life for others, I want to be content in my life and for that if I have to bend the norms that my family puts forward so be it.
The first and foremost thing you have to realise is that being different is okay and doing things you love that pays you less is okay and top of it all respecting yourself is the most important factor in your life. Do not wait for someone to come and respect you instead start my valuing yourself
who values himself or herself is much more confident in life, they are willing to not only face the society but challenges it to respect them. There is no bad job or a bad life, it’s just how we view it. I believe as long as we do not steal, cheat or beg we have the freedom to decide and create a path for yourself that makes us happy and satisfied in life.
Once you make necessary changes and start valuing yourself you will witness people around you being cordial and accepting of your lifestyle.
I know it is easier said than done, but trust me once you take a step towards self-value you will never look back. Your choice in life is greatly depended on how you see yourself, do not judge your capability without even trying. If you feel you should do it then go ahead. Have a clear path and vision in your life, then decide what you want and shape your lifestyle accordingly. And also remember asking for help takes guts and it can be done only by a person who respects himself or herself.
So start loving that person and valuing the one you see every day in the mirror. Be the person you oath to be not the person you have to be. Productivity and positive living can be achieved only when you start valuing yourself.
So let’s pay more attention to us and less tolerance to nonsense, with this note I’m signing off and see you in the next blog
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